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Who wants to escape the matrix with me?
Age 36 From Bowlegs, Oklahoma -
Online - Today Man Seeking A Woman
Basic Information
| First name | Steven |
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| I Can Speak | English |
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| I Would Describe Myself As | Nerdy. Love d&d, mtg, gaming,anime, board games & tabletop. Play on pc & retro games too. Introverted & homebody but not shy in the least. Like most music except most rap & country. Mainly listen to 50-60s oldies & metal. Like muscle cars, motorcycles, piercings, & tattoos. Very socially awkward. Neurodivergent, sarcastic, blunt with almost no filter, & dirty minded. I don’t have baby mama drama, or any exes I’m hung up on. Own my house & car. Like the occasional glass of wine or beer but generally don’t drink. Occasionally have a cigar or two every few years. Don’t really smoke outside of that. Don’t do it much personally but I am green friendly. Not a fan of partying or clubbing. Rather stay home & cook for people. Have 1 adorable cat that follows me everywhere & sleeps with me constantly. I want more companions someday. Like animals more than people. Prefer deep intellectual/philosophical conversations than small talk. I want to know all your fears, dreams, passions. What makes you tick & what you want out of life. What is important to you. Not the weather or your sign. I’m an old school romantic in a world of transactional or superficial relationships. Looking for something serious & long term. I’m straight so no dudes/former dudes. Sorry. Looking for someone honest & loyal. Want that passionate/fiery kind of relationship but without all the drama. Want someone who brings me peace & a safe place to come home to. Where I can escape all stress of reality. I also wish to be that for you. Someone I can talk to all day & never get bored. I want to share & build a life with someone who fills the void in my heart & makes me look forward to every new day. I once saw someone wear a shirt that resonated with me. It said, “I’m vulnerable right now if any goth girls want to take advantage of me.” I wholeheartedly believe in that sentiment. I’ll go at your pace but will not wait forever. I want a real meaningful relationship but I am not desperate either. Perfectly comfortable where I am in life. Show me you are worth risking my sanity & peace for. I believe in meeting someone to get to know them. I hope you feel the same. Haven’t had much luck on dating sites so I don’t make first move anymore. It’s mentally exhausting trying to talk & find that it goes no where or get ghosted. It’s your turn to take initiative. If any of this resonates with you, feel free to send me a message. Let’s see if we are compatible. Otherwise, I wish you the best of luck on your search. |
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| Sign | Aries |
Appearance & Situation
| My Body Type Is | A Few Extra Pounds |
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| My Height Is | 5' 11 (1.8 m) |
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| My Eyes Are | Blue |
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| My Ethnicity Is | Caucasian |
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| My Marital Situation Is | Never Married |
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| I Have Kids | No |
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| I Want Kids | Not Sure |
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| My Best Feature Is | Eyes |
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| Body Art | Scarred, Visible Tattoo |
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| My Hair Is | Dark Blonde |
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| I Have One Or More Of These | Cat |
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| Willing To Relocate | No |
More about him
| What genre of music do you enjoy most? | Other |
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| What is your favorite band? | FFDP, Dion & belmonts, Bryan Adams |
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| Who is your favorite writer? | Tracy Hickman, Richard a knaak, Margaret Weiss |
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| Who is your favorite character from literature? | Raistlin |
Status
| My Education Level Is | College Degree |
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| My Current Employment Status Is | Retired |
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| My Speciality Is | Military |
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| My Job Title Is | Cav scout |
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| I Live | Alone, With Pet(s) |
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| At Home | All Is Calm |
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| I'm A Smoker | Yes - Cigars |
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| I Drink | Yes - One Or Two |
Personality
| Back In High School, I Was A | Quiet One |
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| My Social Behavior Is | Observant, Anti-social, Friendly, Dark, Strange |
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| My Interest And Hobbies Are | Learning, Music, Movies, Internet, Games, Travel, Cooking, Gardening, Cars, Playing Cards, Camping, Computers |
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| My Idea Of A Great Time Is | Staying At Home, Trying New Things, Relaxing, Sleeping, Playing Video Games, Going To A Concert |
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| An Ideal First Date Would Be | Keep it simple. Get to know each other over food or a gaming session. |
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| I've Always Wanted To Try | Visit Europe, go off grid |
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| My Friends Describe Me As Being | Friendly, Goofy |
Views
| My Religion Is | Not Religious |
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| I Attend Services | Never |
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| My Political Views Are | I Don't Like Politics |
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| My Goal In Life Is | Live off grid away from civilization & build a life with someone. |
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| My Kind Of Humor Is | Dry / Sarcastic, Raunchy, Sadistic |
Taste
| On Tv, I Always Watch | I Don't Like Tv |
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| When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A | Action, Science Fiction, Comedy, Animation, Horror |
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| When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To | Rock, Metal, Blues, Jazz, Soul, Folk, Punk |
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| When I Read, I Always Read | Ancient, Fantasy, Fiction, Mystery, Philosophy, Poetry, Science Fiction, Supernatural |
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| My Idea Of Fun Is | Staying home, watching anime/youtube, movies, gaming sessions, cooking for other people. Other stuff if not single. |
Looking for
| What Do You Find Attractive? | Wit, Flirtatiousness, Oddities, Boldness, Empathy, Great Skills, Humor, Good Looks, Thoughtfullness, Intelligence |
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| What Do You Look For? | Honesty, loyalty, integrity, blunt, intelligence, personality, kindness, patience, accountability, peace of mind, nerdy, not argumentative or cause drama, makes time for relationship & attraction. I’m a top heavy guy all the way. Don’t mind a few extra pounds for that reason. Don’t care about income, height, or things you have no control over. I just want you to be present & actively participating in relationship. |
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| What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking? | Date, Intimate, Committed |
