Erik

English, German

I'm fun, caring, easy to get along with, and looking for a passionate, long term D/s relationship with a woman who runs apart from the herd and is very open minded. Ideally, she would be open to new experiences, reliable, honest, kinky, 420 friendly, and at least somewhat rebellious. I believe elevating each other, respecting each other, and open communication are hallmarks of a stellar partnership. I know what I want and need in a relationship, so no head games to be found here (but there might be dragons...and maybe treasure!!!).

I'm mostly a non-traditional person and love challenging the status quo of societal standards. I love tattoos, piercings, and offbeat/eccentric people. I'm very much into industrial, metal, and goth music, especially the three combined. I am obsessed with all things relating to goth/industrial culture (huge bonus of you are too, but not a requirement), much in the same way that a lot of people are obsessed with anime or Harry Potter. I dress almost exclusively in black. My favorite cultural icon is The Addams Family and if I could be any fictional character it would be Gomez, or maybe Uncle Fester (close call, that one). Counter-culture is where it's at. Go weird or go home.

I love kids and have two of my own, a 10 yo son and an 8 yo daughter. They don't live with me but I spend time with them nearly every day. I also have the most awesome cat in the world. I consider myself neither a Democrat nor a Republican. The only reason I mention this is because I am frequently asked about my political views, and that said, I'm rarely interested in talking politics. I fully support the LGBTQ+ community, gender equality, marriage equality, and overall social justice (BLM!!!).

I don't watch or follow sports, I don't hunt (not opposed to it, rather I'm just not interested), I'm handy, but not particularly outdoorsy (though camping, hot springs, and bonfires are fun). I've been known to have severe allergic reactions to hip hop, R&B, and country music.

Aquarius

A Few Extra Pounds

5' 10 (1.78 m)

Caucasian

Divorced

Yes - Sometimes At Home

Not Sure

Visible Tattoo

Dark Brown

Cat

No

Industrial

This site keeps deleting my favorite band as a violation of the terms of service.

Lovecraft, Matthew Lewis, and Tanith Lee

The Addams Family (I know, not really literature, but close enough)

College Degree

Full-time

Computers / Electronic

Software Developer

Alone

No

Yes - Socially

Outcast

Reserved, Observant, Dark

Family, Reading, Arts & Crafts, Learning, Music, Clubbing / Bar Hopping, Gardening, Cars

Hanging Out With Friends, Partying, Staying At Home, Trying New Things, Relaxing, Clubbing / Bars, Reading A Book, Going To A Concert

Friendly, Obscure, I Don't Have Any Friends

Other

Just a comment about the My Religion options. It's quite clear the developers of this site aren't at all into the goth scene by some very notable omissions in the drop down choices, namely pagan, wiccan, and Luciferian.

Campy, Clever, Obscure, Raunchy

I Don't Like Tv

Science Fiction, Horror

Metal, Industrial

Submissive, maybe e.n.m. depending on the person