Ian

English, Spanish

I am not new to the metal scene, have been in for over 30 years (51 years old now), I'm not exclusively stuck to it but its my main go-to for a lot of reasons I'm sure many are familiar with (Mutual understanding of pain endured etc...).
I listen to music everyday. mostly metal and my current favorite Metal band is Unleash the Archers through whom I've made a ton of friends all over the world.
I am also a tried and true Geek; I love Sci_Fi and Fantasy as well as a few interconnected Genres.
In my spare time I play and run TTRPGs (D&D etc), read, watch TV & Movies and am currently learning to play guitar (After 30+ years of farting around).
I come from a strange and Eclectic family; (Ask me about them sometime.) and developed an open mind about the world as a result.
I have a dark sense of humor most of the time, and a very weird one too as well as being an occasional Punster (You've been warned!).
I like to keep myself and my environment clean and expect the same anyone I spend time with (I've lived in some crappy places, not going there again).
I love most animals as pets (But not an excess of them) though I currently do not have any of my own
I won't lie, I do have my share of mental health issues but most are manageable and can be discussed in private at a later time and I am not physically fit (Healthy generally but badly out of shape) though I intend to rectify that when I can get into a new living situation.
I am hoping to find someone who has a brain they aren't afraid to use, a good heart they aren't afraid to open (At least after an full-expected trial period) and a kind smile.
I'd like to meet someone who doesn't need help but will take it when/if needed and will ask when needed.
I'd like to meet someone who can appreciate me for who *I* am and not want to change me off the bat, but will be there for me when I do want to make changes.
Also a good and healthy sense of humor required, I can be a pretty silly person at times...8)
I think I’m a good person and have been told by many I am, I’d just really like to find someone to share that with…on as many levels as possible.
If you've read this all the way through thank you and if you wish to DM me please feel free but answer this question when you do; what song will always bring you to tears? I'll tell you mine if you answer this...8)

Cancer

Thick

6' 1 (1.85 m)

Caucasian

Never Married

No

Not Sure

Smile

Visible Tattoo

Dark Brown

No pets

Yes

Other

Unleash the Archers

Tad Williams

James Bond (ask me why)

Unknown

Some College

Full-time

Computers / Electronic

QA Tester I

$30,000USD To $44,999USD

With Roomate(s)

Friends Come Over Occasionally

No

Yes - One Or Two

Outcast

Reserved, Observant, Comedic, Strange

Dining, Reading, Arts & Crafts, Learning, Music, Tv, Movies, Internet, Games, Travel, Cooking, Cars, Computers

Staying At Home, The Movies, Relaxing, Sleeping, Reading A Book, Playing Video Games, Tv, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum

Someplace quiet to talk, preferably a restaurant. Maybe an Art Gallery show.

Traveling back to where I was born (Thailand) for a visit.

Friendly, Raunchy, Obscure, Goofy

Other

Never

Socialist

To live life according to my terms.

Campy, Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly, Goofy, Obscure, Raunchy

Movies

Action, Science Fiction, Thriller

Rock, Metal, Classical, Industrial

Comic, Fantasy, Fiction, History, Reference, Science Fiction

A good conversation with close similarly-minded friends, possibly over a game of some kind.

Wit, Flirtatiousness, Sensitivity, Empathy, Humor, Thoughtfullness, Intelligence

Kindness, Intelligence, Humor

Friend, Date, Intimate, Committed, Other